Goddess Handle Dildo: Grip and Control Guide
By Tantus Inc. Good Clean Fun | Published: 2026-10-24
Category: How-to Guides
Learn how to use the Tantus Goddess Handle dildo with confidence. This guide covers grip, thrusting, G-spot targeting, and cleaning tips for solo and partnered play.
Quick Answer
The Tantus Goddess Handle dildo gives you extra grip and control thanks to its ergonomic handle, making it easier to target the G-spot and control thrusting during solo or partnered play.
Why the Handle Makes a Difference
Most dildos rely on the shaft alone for grip, which can get slippery or tiring during longer sessions. The Goddess Handle’s ergonomic grip gives you a secure hold, so you can focus on angle and pressure rather than just holding on.
The handle also makes it easier to bend and angle the toy, which is especially useful for reaching the G-spot. Whether you're using it on yourself or with a partner, the handle gives you more precise control.
Material and Care Considerations
The Goddess Handle is made from Tantus’ own 100% Ultra-Premium Silicone, which is body-safe and non-porous. This means it’s easy to clean and can be used with any water-based lubricant.
Since the Goddess Handle does not vibrate, you'll need to rely on manual stimulation. If you want vibration, consider a vibrating toy or add a bullet vibe externally during play.
Step-by-Step Guide to Using the Goddess Handle
- Prepare and Lubricate: Wash the Goddess Handle with mild soap and warm water or a toy cleaner. Apply a generous amount of water-based lubricant to the shaft and your body to reduce friction. Always use water-based lube with silicone toys; silicone-based lube can damage the material.
- Find a Comfortable Position: Lie on your back with knees bent, or try a squatting position for deeper access. For partnered play, the giver can kneel or stand while the receiver lies back with support. Use pillows to support your hips and reduce strain on your wrists.
- Grip the Handle Firmly: Hold the ergonomic handle with a firm but relaxed grip. The handle is designed to give you control, so you don't need to squeeze tightly—just enough to guide the toy. If your hand gets tired, switch to an overhand grip or use both hands.
- Insert Slowly and Angle Toward the G-Spot: Insert the tip slowly, then angle the handle upward toward your belly button to press the curve against the front vaginal wall. Use gentle in-and-out thrusts, adjusting the angle as needed. Don't rush; let your body adjust and communicate with your partner if they're guiding the toy.
- Clean Thoroughly After Use: Wash with mild soap and warm water or use a toy cleaner. Rinse well and let it air dry before storing in a cool, dry place away from direct sunlight. For extra hygiene, you can boil the toy for 3 minutes to sanitize, but check the care instructions first.
Product Spotlight
- Goddess Handle: The Goddess Handle features beautiful subtle curves and soft sleek silicone, with an ergonomic grip handle that makes thrusting and bending easier. This design gives you better control and precision, especially for G-spot stimulation, without sacrificing comfort.

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